Andreja is a Companion in Starfield who can be romanced and married. This guide explains all steps to build a romantic relationship with Andreja, make her your girlfriend and marry her for the Starcrossed Achievement. The gender of your own character doesn’t matter, none of the Companions care about your gender and it can be changed any time in the “Enhance” shops found in major cities.
Andreja Relationship Guide
Step 1: Get Enough Likes from Andreja and keep talking to Her
- Travel together with Andreja whenever possible.
- Keep getting Likes from Andreja during Dialogues (displayed in top right corner). She likes it when you pick the “sassy / feisty” options (usually 2nd or 3rd dialogue choice), don’t sell out for money, and show strength (but not unnecessary bloodshed). It’s highly recommended to make a Quicksave before everyone you talk to. If Andreja gives a Dislike, reload the Quicksave and pick other Dialogues.
- Don’t attack civilians or friendly NPCs.
- Whenever Andreja requests to speak to you always do it and pick the supportive options (usually one of the top two choices).
- Always pick the [FLIRT] / [ROMANCE] / [COMITTMENT] options when they are present. They only show during a few dialogues.
Step 2: Do Andreja’s Relationship Mission, Make her your Girlfriend
- After getting enough Likes and going through enough of Andreja’s dialogues, she will offer Misc Mission “Divided Loyalties“. Accepting it will change the relationship status to “Andreja considers you a friend”. It takes around 40 hours of playtime if you keep getting Likes. For me it happened after having reached the end of the story and having finished 3 of 4 Faction Questlines, so pretty much all of the game’s content. If you get a lot of Dislikes you will undo your progress and it will take longer.
- Complete her quest “Divided Loyalties“.
- At the end of the mission when talking to Andreja back at the lodge pick the 1st dialogue “[ROMANCE] I’ll always be here for you. I love you.” (don’t pick the “Friendship” option). This will make her your girlfriend.
Step 3: Keep Traveling Together until you can Propose Marriage
- Keep Andreja as your active Companion. After 30-90 Minutes playtime, she will want to talk again. Do this and pick the dialogue “[COMMITMENT] I think it’s time we make this official“. She will automatically accept your marriage proposal.
- You can’t get married immediately. Andreja needs some time to prepare. Keep traveling together.
Step 4: Keep Traveling Together until Andreja gives Marriage Quest
- Keep Andreja as your active Companion. After 2-4 hours playtime she will want to talk again. This will start her Marriage Quest “Commitment: Andreja“.
- Follow the quest objectives, it leads to Planet Shoza II. There Andreja will give you a marriage gift and you will officially become a married couple. There is no official wedding ceremony, it’s just the two of you. The Marriage Gift can be placed in any Outpost.
- Relationship Status changes to “Andreja consider you a committed partner”. This maximizes the relationship and unlocks the Starcrossed Achievement.
Marriage Perks
There are no “Romance Cutscene” in the game. The only things that change is that your spouse will smile more when she sees you, and will have nicer dialogues. When you sleep in a bed (lodge or ship) Andreja will wake up next to you and gives a verbal comment on how much fun she had with you last night. You can sleep in bed a few times to hear all her responses, but there are no sexy cutscenes.
Your Spouse will also pick up items more frequently and hand them to you.
You can end the marriage at any time by talking to Andreja, discuss the relationship and choose to end the Commitment. Then you can still pursue a relationship with another Companion.
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For Sarah and Andreja romance, can it be same sex relationship ?
Yes can be same sex relationship. None of the characters care about your gender, it doesn’t matter. And you can change your gender at any time in the “Enhance” shops found in major cities.
I seems this quest can be bugged, i had the Marriage Quest “Commitment: Andreja“. and her saying about going to Planet Shoza II, but when i decided to do the quest later on, there’s nothing in the missions list, and i didn’t notice until alot later on with no earlier save to load back up.
Sadly I restarted and chose Serpent’s embrace hoping for a more cheerful commitment from Andreja. Sorry won’t spoil it for others with specifics beyond this, Andreja still considers you undevoted to the great serpent. Thebwhole thing definitely dampens the mood when you finally reach the lofe partner scene with her.